He school and the Institute they are the places where children spend more time, and are consequently socializing entities that are modeling each boy or girl based on the norms of each center and based on the norms of each group of equals, that is, those that Create each group of children that is formed because of the time they spend together.
This, which in many cases can be really positive, in others it is quite the opposite, and in the same way that they can help a child to grow, to become mature, responsible and inclusive, they can help another to feel isolated, alone and repudiated, precisely when more need is to be accepted and respected.
And if not tell the child victim not only of the students of his school, but also the address, who thought that the best way to solve the conflict was write a letter to parents to stop having unmanly attitudes.
Being unmanly worried others
The letter was written by the director of College of the Sun from Buenos Aires. The child's psychiatrist posted it on Facebook to publicly denounce the moral category of that person, and even that of the students.
Messrs. Parents: your child shows attitudes at all masculine by worrying his friends and classmates. I ask him to please talk to him and transform him once and for all into a man. Greets atte: the Address.
Apparently, the way of being of the boy with little masculine attitudes worries his friends and partners, who must be very masculine. What makes a very masculine child? Because I just don't know what it means to be very masculine, a little masculine or nothing masculine. I imagine they mean that the boy makes more usual gestures in the chichas ... but what girls? Because not all girls make the same gestures.
And even if it were, what is the problem? The fear of difference, the revulsion and isolation that occurs over someone who is not considered normal does so much harm, but so much to those who simply want, or need to be themselves ... can a director really believe, or pretend that Does a child have to become what he is not because his parents, she or his classmates tell him? Where is the right to be oneself?
Hopefully now they do not start sending letters to the parents of black children because the classmates are very worried because they see them very dark and they have to be bleached, or those of the short ones, so that they are taller, or those of those who they talk a lot, so that they speak less, neither to those of the girls, so that they become women, nor to those of the women, so that they are more girls, nor ... because that way they will never end.
Instead of educating worried students by explaining to them why don't they have to fear anything, or suffer for the child, but in any case respect and help him, being different, feel one more, the address lends itself to disqualify and insult the child and reject it for not being as they want it to be.
Unfortunately there are schools that enter the game of psychological abusers, becoming one of them.
